Can we live in a world without malicious rumors? Can we live in a world without bad thoughts and wrong ideas about others? Can we live in a world with fairness?
I once asked these to myself. I've noticed the people around me that what I did is not malicious but in their eyes it is. When I'm with my boy best friend, they don't react but when I'm with a boy not very close to me, they always react. I don't know why they find it very malicious. Can't I be with boys? Is it bad to be with them? Is it wrong with a girl to be with a boy without any special feelings? Can't they believe with the truth I say? And my big question is "IS THIS THE RESULT OF ALL THE SINS WE, HUMANS, DID AND DO EVERYDAY?" This is also the reason why I'm not close to any boy in our class (just one is enough :P). My classmates might think I'm flirty if I will be close to them. Sometimes, my friends will ask, "Is he your boyfriend?" then will ask again, "Is that true?".This question is not really bad. In fact, it's alright for me to be asked by this question. It's part of a teen's life but asking it repeatedly is very annoying for me. All this questions make me want to avoid all the boys around me.
If I say no, will you believe me? If I say yes, will you never tease me?
We, people, don't believe when others say no. If they say yes, we always tease them. This is very common to us. The reply is no but there is always a question replied after. But, when we reply yes there is always a reply "ayiieee" (What the heck?).
I hate TH (Tamang Hinala) (wrong suspicion) people. I hate back fighters. I hate "reporters" (people who give out false rumors and spread it. That's what I call them). I hate people who drags me down. I hate people who really knows me but is still questioning my personality. If he/she really knows me, he/she must have trust on me and he/she must know me very well. Remember, before you say something bad on someone, you must think. You have no right to judge someone you don't know very well. You have no right to spread your own rumor or gossip of a person you don't know very well.
And now, back to my questions. I think, this is just my Utopia and forever it will be my Utopia. I think these questions of mine will still be unanswered for the rest of my life until I die.
I once asked these to myself. I've noticed the people around me that what I did is not malicious but in their eyes it is. When I'm with my boy best friend, they don't react but when I'm with a boy not very close to me, they always react. I don't know why they find it very malicious. Can't I be with boys? Is it bad to be with them? Is it wrong with a girl to be with a boy without any special feelings? Can't they believe with the truth I say? And my big question is "IS THIS THE RESULT OF ALL THE SINS WE, HUMANS, DID AND DO EVERYDAY?" This is also the reason why I'm not close to any boy in our class (just one is enough :P). My classmates might think I'm flirty if I will be close to them. Sometimes, my friends will ask, "Is he your boyfriend?" then will ask again, "Is that true?".This question is not really bad. In fact, it's alright for me to be asked by this question. It's part of a teen's life but asking it repeatedly is very annoying for me. All this questions make me want to avoid all the boys around me.
If I say no, will you believe me? If I say yes, will you never tease me?
We, people, don't believe when others say no. If they say yes, we always tease them. This is very common to us. The reply is no but there is always a question replied after. But, when we reply yes there is always a reply "ayiieee" (What the heck?).
I hate TH (Tamang Hinala) (wrong suspicion) people. I hate back fighters. I hate "reporters" (people who give out false rumors and spread it. That's what I call them). I hate people who drags me down. I hate people who really knows me but is still questioning my personality. If he/she really knows me, he/she must have trust on me and he/she must know me very well. Remember, before you say something bad on someone, you must think. You have no right to judge someone you don't know very well. You have no right to spread your own rumor or gossip of a person you don't know very well.
And now, back to my questions. I think, this is just my Utopia and forever it will be my Utopia. I think these questions of mine will still be unanswered for the rest of my life until I die.
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